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叙"新"

今天跟亲爱的嘉宜相约吃午餐。我们坐在咖啡座里闲聊了很久。嘉宜是个很积极向上的人, 跟她在一起总是很难不感染到她的正能量。短短的三个小时, 我对她真的是掏心又掏肺。总是很感激像她这样聆听的耳朵。她是天真无邪和成熟稳重的完美结合, 所以跟她聊天还蛮放松的。

原来旧朋友出来见面在很大的程度上不是叙“旧”,而是叙“新”。这大概就是保持联络的意义吧?时不时就告知对方自己的近况,分享新计划、新目标。我们总不能拥抱着过去,因为人都是往前走。过去是回味的时候才搬出来说的事情。分享“新”的事情是很必要的事,因为也只有这样,彼此之间的距离才不会因为平时的不见面和没时间联络而被拉远。

今天是非常累的一天。但还算满足 :)

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