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On a Saturday evening.

My mobile vibrated.

"Hello."

"Hello. 2 days ago was your birthday right?"

"Yup."

"See, I remember."

"Oh yeah right you remembered."

"(laughs) Ok I just want to say happy belated birthday."

"Thank you."

"Has school started?"

"Yup. A week ago."

"Ok. Take care and study hard. See you soon."

"Yup. Take care."

"Bye."

"Bye."

A call received on a Saturday evening, from whom used to be a very good friend but now seemingly feels like a total (ok maybe not total) stranger.
See what I mean? Things change. Because he never forgets but this year he forgot.

Sometimes what is the point of saying you remember a person's birthday when you do not remember on that day itself?

Nevertheless, I appreciate the effort in making the call.

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