Grumble less. Your optimism may really bring up the morale of people around you. Then, you are saving lives.
And what Eric said definitely made a lot of sense. Don't promise what you can't do, promise that you will do whatever you can.
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There is no right or wrong unless of course, you set the parameters and yes, of course there are times you need to do the definitions. I just feel that at the end of the day, maybe nothing is worth being blamed at all because we all set different boundaries for different contexts. Not seeing eye to eye on certain issues probably just implies a failure in making expectations meet. Maybe we shouldn't pass any general verdict because there is so much more as far as morals are concerned. Maybe, we should always add 'I think/believe/feel' in front of a general statement, lest it becomes an overgeneralization or an unintentional attempt to alter mindsets, even principles. It's hard not to sway people with your words, especially those who really believe in you. Don't use this to your advantage to influence their judgements. Everyone has a right to opinions.
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